Lots of advice about Skype sex will tell you that lighting and posing are very important because you want to look your best for your audience. Make sure that overhead light doesn't make you look like you're in jail. I like the way it looks, but I mostly like it for the pleasure it brings me. Yeah, you like that." It's not, you know, rhetorically sophisticated, but it works. Having sex via the internet doesn't excuse you from tenderness. Send a quick text/email/gchat/phone call/postcard the next day — "That was fun!
I think it's more that you want to feel attractive in your own skin. It's taken me a time and a lot of work to feel that way about myself, and I'm lucky that I finally do. Call me a girl, but lying there after most kinds of sex with people I like, I want to check in with my partner, talk to them, find out about their day, their dreams, make them laugh or see if they can make me laugh.
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It helps if you get excited by showing off your own body, and are eager to stare longingly at the bod of your person of choice. So even on Skype, it's considerate to follow up, especially after the first time.
Pretend like he's there and dress up in some sexy lingerie that really puts you in the mood.
Don't forget the sexy music—and keep some lube handy, too." / Touch yourself slowly—either through manual stimulation or with a few sex toys—and tease him with a little peek-a-boo.) It's scary to be that vulnerable, so make sure you appreciate your partner out loud. But before you take a screenshot, make sure your boundaries are clear.