She avoids hanging out with you and the guys, goes quiet when she calls and you’re out with them, glares when you narrate some awesome hangout anecdote and subtly drops hints that she thinks your buddies are tiny little poop pieces.
Now, most of you rational women will protest because most of your boyfriends have at least a couple of moron friends that you don’t like, and I get that no one likes a moron.
The way to certify this is to look at her eyes: is there a vast chasm of emptiness, blackness and terror? They will never hit you if they’re feeling genuine affection for you.
Does she make a joke about fat people but when you laugh, does she turn the tables on you by saying “do you think I’m fat? She has a scary laugh Does her laugh make the pit of your stomach turn icy cold?If however, you mention her name and the guy’s expression glazes over like he’s having a Vietnam flashback – you need to be worried. Does he give you a man hug and repeatedly confirm whether you and the girl are still together? Does he walk away from you while singing and clicking his heels together like a guy who’s just been given free nachos ? The crazy woman is one of nature’s most devastating forces.
Most guys spend their time rationalising the behaviour of the crazy woman they are dating because they just assume “she’s difficult” or ”opinionated” or has an “adorable tendency to be a raging cow.” Crazy women are never, ever crazy to begin with. In my vast experience, I observed both the behaviour of crazy women and listened to the advice of normal women.It’s often difficult to interact and compromise with people, especially if they have vastly different personalities, different backgrounds, and different values.